Thursday, June 12, 2008

The Car-Free Lifestyle-How To Do It


Whenever I reveal the fact that I am a non-driver who lives car-free, I always receive many questions about how I do it and what all this choice entails. Many questions are the ones I have most come to expect, largely about the practical issues and how-tos, but some are also interesting questions regarding how this choice has come to effect my lifestyle as a whole. There has been a journey of sorts that has brought me to the point I am in this whole "car-free" life of mine, and this journey has brought about much more to my life than simply forgoing four wheels in most instances.

Originally, I came to be a non-driver due to anxiety about driving. I do know how to drive and have tried learning for my drivers test on several occasions, but each time something would come up again, bringing my fears to a higher level than they were before. In one instance, I hit a mailbox and in another, I was nearly ran off a little two lane road by the impatient SUV driver behind me. Both of these instances shook the little bits of confidence I had mustered up, and from that point on, I decided I would work with what I had (my own feet, buses, etc) until I was ready to take official drivers ed once Sean and I came up with the funds.

Well, I wound up loving walking, biking, and bus riding so much that there never wound up being a need for me to take the drivers ed lessons at that point, so we opted for me as I was, being well aware that I could take driving lessons when/if the need arose in the future, and so we embarked on learning how to make this all work. Regardless of my driving status, we have always been big on walking & biking & never intended to buy a second car. Sean & I are also highly concerned about our nation's great dependence on oil & cars as is, but especially when it comes to leaning on foreign oil. And, of course, I'm a little bit green hippie (just a little..;o)), so other than driving to work, our car was never a huge part of our lifestyle anyway, and became even less as we ventured further into green living.

In the years that have followed, there have been many tips and tricks I have learned to make being car-free not only work for me, but give me a rich life in the process, and oddly, one that is far more exciting than when I couldn't think outside the car. I fully realize that being car-free probably will not work for most people, nor is it necessarily a choice most people would desire to make any way, but I hope by sharing how I do it, perhaps some of you might be able to work some gas savings into your lives, too. :o)

How To Be Car-Free

1. Pick a location near whatever shops, doctors, activities, and whatnot that are essential to your life, as well as public transit if available. Even if a lousy public transit city, there may be places to live that are near to libraries, grocery stores, strip malls, and the like. Even if you cannot be totally car-free, being able to walk to a few places can help boost gas savings and also calorie burning.

Check the Walk Score for the place you live in now. I absolutely love this website and on several occasions have learned of places nearby that I hadn't noticed before.

2.Plan, plan, plan your shopping. I have a pantry list that lists everything I like to keep stocked at all times, as well as the amount. This allows me to order bulk foods & assure they do not spoil, stock up when items are on sale, and save time by making less frequent trips and online purchases dried food items, medicinal herbs, craft supplies, cleaning product supplies, and so on. On a normal shopping trip, I only purchase "fresh" items unless something odd & unforeseen has happened, and then I'm only buying an item or two from the pantry list.

This list also allows me to plan the purchase of many items when they typically go on sale. Deals for linens can usually be found in January white sales, for instance. Clothing for the entire family can be purchased from rummage sales, thrift stores, and the like. Gifts for upcoming holidays and birthdays can typically be found, or made, months in advance, at not only great prices, but also super special gifts that will really mean something to the recipient. For the fall/winter birthdays and holidays, I like to have everything done by the time September rolls around and learned all about this type of planning from my Mom.

Growing some of your own food can also be a great way to add to the pantry; I like to think of my garden as living outdoor food storage ;o). Even on the tiniest apartment patio, a pretty nice size container garden can be tended to. In the winter, herbs and some smaller plants can be grown inside, on a counter, bakers rack, or window sill that receives ample sunlight.


3. Making bulk purchasing of grains, legumes, flour, baking items, laundry detergent, and anything else is heavy, through a co-op, buying club, health food store, farm, internet resource, or wherever can save a lot of money, time, and a backache--and not just for car-free people either. Local Harvest can help you locate what might be available in your area, and depending on your family's tastes, Costco, Sam's Club, or another warehouse store might work for you. (They wouldn't work for us, but I do know many people who do enjoy their memberships :o)) For military families, certain items might be able to be stocked up at case lot sales or by using the discount shelves at the commissary.

There are many other places that we have found for stocking bulk items and a good emergency preparedness food storage, and typically we have found them by word of mouth, so ask around to see what else might be available in your area.

4. Learn to forgo items that you do not really need, especially those that may be bulky or need to purchased fairly often. I have replaced all of my "paper products" with reusable counterparts, so paper towels, napkins, diapers, feminine hygiene items, and similar goods do not need to be purchased. This not only saves trips and hassles but quite a bit of money as well.


5. Purchase top quality shoes, backpacks, rain gear, cold weather clothing, water bottles and options for babywearing. Many excellent items can be found at army surplus type stores, sporting good stores, and even thrift stores, in some cases. All of these items make car-free living safer and far more easy.

6. Purchase a bike with a kiddie hauler of some kind. The pull along style trailers can hold children and/or shopping. A basket or child seat can also be added to the bike itself to allow for more haulage.

Along with a bike, using a stroller, wagon, or rolling shopping basket to hold your shopping, rather than your child, can make bringing items home very easy. A sling, Mei Tai, backpack carrier, or other babywearing device can then be used to safely carry baby or toddler.

7. Be prepared, aware and safe! Always carry enough cash for a cab on your physical body (NOT in a purse, backpack, etc), along with a trusty little map that you know how to read--preferably with bus information written on it. At some point, you probably will miss the bus, probably while in the down pouring rain, since that is just how life works. LOL. Be prepared!

Taking a self-defense class is a worthwhile endeavor for anyone, especially women, but even more important when walking about. If I were to recommend a class, IMPACT Training would be it.


8. Connect with fellow car-free people, through both local organizations and internet resources.

A few such links:

Car-Free Seattle
Car-Free Cities
National Bicycle Greenway
LJ's Carfree Community

9. When somebody does give you a ride somewhere, always be sure to offer gas money. I am frequently offered rides by friends and family, along with invites to this place or that, and many people will not accept gas money from me. If this is the case, free baby/house/petsitting, a huge plate of their fave baked goods, an invite to dinner, help with house/yardwork, or some other needed favors are nice ways to reciprocate their kindness. If all else fails, and your kind helpers will not allow you to "pay them back," sending a nice gift "just because" is something they can't refuse. :o)



So, there is a little insight into how I do it. Someday in the future, I probably will take drivers ed, though I doubt a car will ever be my main form of transportation by choice, without a real reasoning to make this necessary. But until there comes a point in my life where I simply must be driving, this lifestyle is one I most enjoy and is one that is easy on the pocketbook and planet, and promotes good health. :o)


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24 comments:

Mrs W said...

I SOOO wish I could do this. We have NO public transport in this city...and I don't have a bike, but that doesn't make much difference as I personally wouldn't be able to get TWO kids on a bike with me LOL. I don't mind walking...except I would somehow have to cross the highway to get anywhere...with two small children in tow lol. (Well, it will be two soon at any rate and both will be under 1).

Anyway just a question...do you go "green" because you like it better and it's healthier etc, or is it because you are in the "save the environment" movement?

lizzykristine said...

I loved being car-free when I lived in Europe, but their society is also set up for it. The bus and train systems allows you to easily get anywhere you need to be. It was great! (Except when I was doing the grocery shopping. Walking 2 miles with several gallons of milk and tons of fresh produce was a killer. I was often shopping for up to 20 people. :)

Even where I live now, most stores are within walking distance by European standards. But since my health has gone down, I can't do it. Walking around the store is all I can handle, much less the trek there and back. At least, not if I want to stay out of bed for the rest of the day. :)

Which is why I'm a little surprised by you being car-free! I wasn't surprised by the green reasoning but just wondered if you sometimes struggle physically with this decision? Has getting control of celiac eliminated most of your fatigue? What a blessing, if so! :)

Oh -- I've also considered using a stroller to haul stuff, but I just feel a teensy bit silly with a stroller but no baby. :)

Mrs. Mordecai said...

Thanks for indulging my curiosity!

Anonymous said...

I too am car free. i get a lot of the "how can you stand it" lines. i just tell them I don't go many places and everything I need (most of the time) is within a 20 minute walk. My husband drives and will drive us places that I can't walk to, which is rare. I love it and it saves money!

Mrs. Amy Brigham said...

Mrs. W- I am green for both reasons. God gave us dominion of His Creation and I do not believe that being as wasteful and decadent as possible is a good way to show Him respect (nor a good way to live frugally, preparing ourselves to be able to give charity, for that matter). There are many legitimate environmental issues that honest to goodness environmentalists who are not "zero population growth-ers" have been trying to help solve for many years, yet thanks to the large corporations who support the population control movement, and to the many people in America and other places who cannot be bothered to make the tiniest of changes, little to no progress has been done until "eco chic" came about.

Lizzy- You lived in Europe! *jealous* I always tell Sean that we should move to Paris or some other "cool" city, and then I can be car-free and shop for food like a European...or so how I think they do it. :P

As long as I'm taking my supplements and eating well I seem to be okay. If not, being car-free AND being the mother of an active toddler are both very very tiring. Even still, I find I need a bit more sleep than most adults seem to, and usually sleep 9-10+ hours every night, Peapod willing.

Have you ever seen those rectangular metal baskets? I've seen many older ladies pushing these around at the farmers market. They work like a stroller, for both hauling and folding up easily when not in use. I'm probably describing them terribly :P

Mrs W said...

By the way, thanks for the link to the Mrs Survival site. It's awesome. I joined up on the forums and have gotten good ideas already.

Rebecca said...

Wow! That was really interesting. I lived in Portland OR in college, but was on the edge of the city and thus on the edge of the excellent transport system. I always eye balled the most beat up car on the road and thought how greatful I'd be for it! lol I didn't have a lisence at the time; nor did I have money for a bike. I usually walked the 30 min or so to the train because it was just as quick or quicker than waiting for the bus.

Now I live way out in the country without a car, and am looking forward, despite gas prices, to the day when we finally have 2 cars again so I can go out now and then during the day.

All that to say, being carless is surely not for me! ;) But I do seriously admire your lifestyle. :)

Mrs. Amy Brigham said...

Mrs. W- I'm so glad that you are enjoying Mrs. Survival. The vast amount of information there is wonderful, and there is always something new to learn! :o)

Rob and Erin said...

I love all the tips. We live on base and only have one car so we have decided to try to cut out as much driving as possible. My hubby drives to work if the weather is nasty, but otherwise he bikes. Everything is at most 1 1/2 miles from home and with my daughter on her bike and son in stroller we can go pretty much anywhere.

During the winter we do tend to drive more only because it gets to be in single digits and when you factor in the wind it's not pleasant for little ones (or adults). But when we do "need" to drive we try to combine as many errands into one trip as possible.

I hope you are enjoying Wa and your new home. Summers there are always beautiful.

Erin

Julie said...

Mrs. Amy, I was just thinking today how I could cut down on gas by walking to the store. I was thinking a couple of folding pull behind carts would be perfect for weekly shopping.
We have one car and DH works across town so on days I keep the car we are making two 60 mile roundtrips. Seems a bit excessive.
Thanks for the ideas!

Angie Pangie said...

I have never driven. I used to live in a city with decent transit and was able to get pretty much everything I needed by bus or on foot. We live in a small town now with no buses and still walk everywhere, rain or shine. Very rarely do we need to ask someone for a ride. It is wonderful exercise, especially if you are also carrying some well balanced groceries. A backpack with a tummy belt for extra support is a good thing to have :) The more you walk the easier it becomes, imo

Karen said...

Well Amy, your story sounded so much like mine except that my husband doesn't drive either! So neither of us do! And we're about 2 miles away from any bus stop, with 3 kids to haul around (well 2 and 1 in my womb haha).

But let me tell you, on the whole I like it. My main problem is weather! When it gets to be 15 degrees with 2 feet of snow, we're pretty much trapped! I tend to stay in a lot during those times because long walks are just too dangerous. I once slipped on the ice when I was 6 months pregnant and landed flat on my belly (thankfully baby and I were OK!). We do without a lot, buy a lot off the internet, and rely on friends and family for rides to church and the store during months when it's either unbearably hot or cold.

You are right about people not accepting gas money! I usuaully try to invite them out for dinner!

Dulce Domum said...

As you know I too am car-free (as was my husband for the first 11 years of our marriage)and I can honestly say that if you enjoy the fresh air and like walking it is a good thing, especially if you're quite a homebody...not bored at home, longing to go out shopping/toddler groups/coffee morning etc. The public transport system allows me to go wherever I please within my own town, however I cannot access the countryside in any kind of efficient way and I did feel my children were missing out on this rather. So when the DH got a car (his commute was staggeringly bad) it opened up a whole new world for us, a new kind of family life at weekends.

However, my grandfather once worked in the same city as my husband and commuted from my home town everyday. The company he worked for had a bus running for the men who lived in our area to take them to work. This was in the days when few people in the UK had a family car. My grandfather was an engineer for Rolls Royce yet NEVER owned a car of his own! This system was entirely set up for car free living, there were even train stations in tiny villages. I feel that if we are to reduce our car usage (perhaps back to the days when there was only one car per family and it was used for outings and treats)then we need a cheap and efficient transport system that isn't entirely city/town based. Obviously, the UK is a much smaller country than the USA and I do get the feeling that cars are something of a lifeline to Americans, you're the first American I've "met" who was car-free!

Vicky said...

I loved hearing about how you make walking/biking/public transit work for you! Until I got married, I've always lived out of town - well, growing up with 9 kids, we needed land to garden and grow on! But my Mom made relatively few trips into town, and combined them as much as possible. Even now, where we live, I only go into town once or twice a week.
Still, where we used to live in WI, Mikaylah and I were within walking distance of seveal parks, we lived across the street from Lake Winnebago (GREAT spot!), and downtown was just about a mile away. Cute coffee shops, fresh bread, flowers, and a thrift store awaited us - not to mention the farmer's market on weekends! Had I been at home with her from the beginning, we would have walked everywhere! :)
Here, walking is doable but not easy. To get to the places I would need, it would mean crossing busy 4-lane highways without crosswalks - not pedestrian friendly. So I think I will have to forgo the walking lifestyle for now, but it is always in the back of my mind. :) I did take your advice the other day and let Mikaylah carry a box of cereal I got at CVS for cheap - she was beaming! And it let me walk with the groceries without having to carry her, too! :)

veiledglory said...

I loved Walk Score, too! We live in a light green neighborhood...which is not too bad. I can walk comfortably to work, a hospital, several ok eating establishments, a large box-top store, and several smaller worthwhile shops...but no groceries. The bus system is actually decent and they are adding buses this year. My apartment complex has no outdoor bike racks so I had to give away my bicycle when I moved here.

If we had to stay in this town, we'd rent a house probably within a quarter mile of our current location. Hubby will ditch his old car when it dies and get a scooter for his 3 mile commute. :)

Hubby is also from Tacoma, WA. He didn't learn how to drive until he was 19. Didn't have to learn in a city like that.

~Anna

Johanna said...

Sadly, living in the suburbs is horrible for trying to go without a car! My hubbie and I would love to be a one car family because of cost savings alone, but it just isn't possible where I live. No public transportation, no shopping within walking distance, nothing. I too would love to live in Europe someday. We honeymooned in London and loved walking and using the public transportaion - it is set up for pedestrians!

USAincognito said...

The city I live in is not conducive to car-free living. But most Midwestern states are not. It is too cold during the winter months for people to be exposed for long periods of time to the elements. However, the next place I move to, I am hoping to buy a house in an area that is close to stores and restaurants and parks all within walking distance.

Lee said...

We live 4 miles from town so being entirely car free is impossible, but I try to gage my trips into town and REALLY limit them. I leave our farm probably only three or four days a week. Summer helps the cabin fever as we can be outside and footloose and fancy free, but wintertime is a whole different story...

I admire your car-less lifestyle. :)

smallnotebook.org said...

What an interesting post. A location suitable for walking is one of the most important things we are considering right now in our decision about where to live. I thought your points about planning your shopping trips were quite good.

AnneK said...

In India, I was car free my entire life. I was car free during my two years of college here. Walked several miles in the snow and cold in Ohio. It wasn't easy. But I firmly believe that doing hard things build character. I bought my first car when I got a job. Since R works from home, we only have one car now.

Mrs. Gunning said...

We already have a bike for myself, and now are on the hunt for a tow-behind trailer for Precious Jewel. I am very excited. It will be beneficial on so many levels. :)

Kimi Harris said...

Amy,
You make me feel so much better. :-) I didn't get my license until I was .......hmmm.... well I think I got it within this last year actually! So around 23. It was one of those things of circumstances and lack of desire. I still don't enjoy driving that much, though I have gotten much more comfortable. I think when you are older, you realize the danger more than when you are 16.

But the special thing for me was that I spent so much more time with my parents, and then my husband when we first got married. They would always have to drive me places, and so it gave us so much more time together.

MarkyMark said...

Mrs. Amy,

Congrats on being car free! Cars are such a HUGE expense; they are literally money pits. I have a five year old car that I got when it was 1 going on two years old; it was a late model used car. Anyway, it's been ok, but it's at the point in its life cycle where all the original consumable items (tires, shocks, etc., basically anything that wears out on the car) are having to be replaced; your original tires, shocks, stuff like that starts needing replacement @ 50k miles or so.

My car has required $2000 this year alone-wow! The tires, struts, shocks, and brake pads were about $1,200; then, my 75k mile service was $812 a couple of weeks ago. I could have, and indeed would have, loved and needed to use that money for other things, but where I live, transit isn't an option for where I normally go.

Let me take that back; the county has a little bus that runs, and I need to call them to see if I can use them for going to work. I do have a train station that's LITERALLY behind my place. However, here in NJ, NJ Transit goes mainly too and from NYC; if you're not going somewhere that's enroute to NYC, then you're out of luck. I have used the train to travel between my place and my mom's house on occasion, but I can't always do this. Where I live on the line, the train only runs Mon-Fri; they have no weekend service out to where I live along the line. Still, in certain instances, the train is an option, and I do use once in a while.

Unfortunately, given the USA's history, size, and love of the car, we do not have good mass transit outside of a few select cities. NYC has a good transit system, as does Chicago, Portland, and Boston. Other than that, I don't know where it would be possible to totally give up the car. I too have been to Europe, and you do not need a car over there; I only wish we could say that here too...

That said, I think that the best most folks can do (and will do, with gas having reached $4/gal, with the prospect of going higher) is to SELECTIVELY use their cars. That is to say that they only use their cars when absolutely necessary; if there's another option for going somewhere, then they make use of it, say walking or biking where possible.

I lived within walking distance of my old job, and I loved it! I only used my car one day a week for errands, then on weekends to visit my mom. Even though this was before gas went up, I saved $100/month, easy, on gas alone; you can add to that when you factor in fewer visits to the Ford dealer for scheduled maintenance. Unfortunately, my former employer decided that they didn't need me anymore, so now I have a commute again-uggh...

I have a motorcycle, and I do ride to work whenever possible. I like riding motorcycles, and I always have. So, if I can commute on the bike, it puts me in a MUCH better mood when I get to work! Plus, it saves on gas and car maintenance. Now that cold weather riding gear is more readily available, I'll be purchasing some, so I can ride during the colder months too.

I walk when I can, but that's not so often anymore. I can walk to a place by my old job where I can get milk, bread, and a few other things, but it's not a full fledged store. It's a deli/luncheonette, and they sell milk, juice, and a few other things like that. Biking, thanks to my knees, isn't the option it once was for me.

Those are my thoughts. Good for you being able to do without a car! I wish I could; having a car is like having a VACUUM CLEANER hooked up to your wallet. If you can do without one, do without it.

MarkyMark

Catherine R. said...

I know this is an oldie (but goodie)...of course I was interested in this post as I am now starting to really accept that I personally am car free. It's been a journey. I drove fine for 10 years before I had a severe panic attack that completetly rendered me unable to drive. I have panic disorder in general but that's a long story.

Unlike you being car free is something that I don't think I ever would have chosen if not for my struggles. But here I am. I don't know when or if things will ever change and it's very helpful to get these tips from you : ]

Mike and I want very much to move to the Pearl District (of Portland), walk score 99! ; ] He works right in the Pearl district, the baby's Dr. is 1 mile away from there and you can walk to any and everything with a stellar transit system. But of course rents are about 3 times what we are paying now >: [

We need to figure something out though because I am isolated in a suburban apartment with SUVs whipping be at 100 miles per hour while I try to stroll Sidney down a busy street to get to the only grocery store within walking distance (the expensive one that I don't like of course).